Sidelined with a Time Out

I suffered a mild stroke on December 8, 2009. It was an eye-opening experience. My day progressed as it normal. I went to work and performed the usual tasks. That evening, I ventured to the supermarket to pick up a few items. I was accompanied by my oldest son Arthur Jr. I usual relish in the opportunity to have him accompany me to the supermarket. He drives and we get to share tidbits about our day. We talk about his hopes and dreams for the future. On this particular evening, I felt as though I was drooling from the left side of my mouth. I found myself talking and wiping my mouth. This was unbeknownst to him. By the end of our short trip, I felt exhausted. My body began to feel weak on the left side. This was especially true for my arm and leg. I didn't mention anything to him about my discomfort. I arrived home and explained the situation to my husband and daughter. My daughter, Jarena - 15 yrs. said I looked as though I was in pain. She strongly suggested that we venture to the hospital. My husband chimed in and agreed that we should go to the hospital. Holy Name Hospital is about 3 blocks from my house. I was seen immediately. After a few preliminary tests I was admitted.

My mother passed away at the age of 53. She had high blood pressure. Both of my sisters suffer from hypertension as well. I am well aware of the health risks associated with Hypertension in the African American Community. I explained the to Cardiologists on staff as well as the Neurologist. I know all of my numbers. I am very conscious of my blood pressure, my weight, my diet and level of exercise. I was prescribed a medication that side effects outweighed the benefits. Whenever I took my medication I suffered from anxiety while driving, heart palpitations, equalibrium issues, etc. I stopped taking the medication - Darvon. I began taking the medication again on Saturday - Dec.5th. I continued on Sunday - Dec. 6, Monday - Dec, 7th and Tuesday - December 8th, I was hospitalized with a minor stroke. What do you think it was?

I have recovered with a new quest for life. I am extremely appreciative for the caregivers and professionals at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck, New Jersey. I was very fortunate to have a full recovery. The time I spent in the hospital and recovering at home was valuable. I used the opportunity to evaluate my life and the focus on my filmmaking goals.

I am a survivor of a minor stroke. I was sidelined with a time out. God knew what he/she was doing when my lights were dimmed for a fraction of a second. God also knew that I would marvel at an opportunity to make myself and the world a better place if given the chance to survive.

May Peace be With You